Belly rubbing? Why is it so hard to give praise to others when we are so practiced in receiving it ourselves? Rationing our praise, so that it might not become too expected or less than genuine may be noble and well meant, but it really doesn't do much for relationships.
Think about it. A simple "thank-you" from time to time or even just a touch of the hand gently on a shoulder sends a powerful message to those we love. "You are appreciated and I want you to know that what you do for me has not gone unnoticed."
God’s Word tells us: “But Moses said, ‘Please do not leave us. You know where we should camp in the wilderness, and you can be our eyes. If you come with us, we will share with you whatever good things the Lord gives us’” (Numbers 10:29-32).
Being at a loss for words when it comes to appreciation isn't in any way sensible or practical. There's never any excuse for being mute when others are in need of our appreciation and praise. If you have a mind to give some praise, just to give someone a good friendly, emotional belly rub, remember–keeping it to yourself satisfies no one but yourself.
“I pray today in Jesus name that when we always look for opportunities to appreciate others as a matter of habit and not merely on the rare occasion. When we have a mind to give it, help us to do so Lord. Amen!”
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